![]() ![]() ![]() (And, honestly it took me a L O N G time learn how to be considerate and ask him before committing him to any and all activities.) I didn’t know what I didn’t know about making a relationship thrive and grow into a joyous and sacred union.īrian was a natural at most of these things, and most of the time, he was very patient with me when communicating about what was and was not working for him. It became obvious that I needed to discover new, better ways to listen, to communicate, to be considerate, and most importantly to become a team player. Weren’t we destined to easily and effortlessly live “happily ever after?” It never occurred to me that we wouldn’t always see things “eye to eye” because we were soulmates. It never occurred to me that Brian would want anything different from what I wanted. If I “knew he would want to go, then WHY, WHY, WHY did I have to ask him first?”Īs a first time bride at 44, I was used to having everything my way, all the time. ![]() “ Because asking me is the polite and considerate thing to do.” “ Well, it would have been nice if you had asked me first.” “What do you mean? Don’t you want to have dinner with the Chopra’s?” Instead I got this strange look from him, that I immediately felt in the pit of my stomach, so I said, “what’s wrong?” I fully expected Brian to say something like, “ Hey that’s great, should be lots of fun to catch up with them.” “Hey babe, guess what? We’re having dinner tonight at Deepak and Rita Chopra’s house, we need to be there by 7pm, I haven’t a clue what I’m gonna wear but I have to jump into the tub right now.” Here’s just one example: One day, several months after we got married, I walked into the house all excited and started talking a mile-a- minute to Brian…no hello, no kiss, just this: I was an excellent manifestor, and I was great at being “the boss” of my business, but I had zero partnership skills. Soon after we got married, I made a horrifying discovery: I had no clue how to be a great wife. Today I am in my 17 th year of an amazing, deeply loving, fulfilling marriage to my soulmate Brian… and I almost blew it! How Wabi-Sabi Will Change your Love Life.Turn Your Mate into Your Soulmate Videos.VIDEO: Make Your Love the Relationship of a Lifetime.Free Chapters: Turn Your Mate into You Soulmate.Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Teenage Soul.More Hot Chocolate for the Mystical Soul.Healing Your Heart and Soul from Betrayal.Communication Secrets for a Happy Relationship. ![]()
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